claire's Cancer Blog
May 5, 2008
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Me, Him and his Cancer
Hello
This is my first ever blog. i decided to start a blog as Im just one of those women who need a creative font…(mostly for crap)! but please try and stick with me!
My Partner Simon is upstairs ion bed, He has Renal cell cancer.
So strange to write that because Cancer is something that happens to other families of the stuff you read about in those womens magazines 9you know the ones… women sleeps with goat, I married my brother) you never really think i t is something that you will have to deal with.
We Found out in July when Simon was climbing the stairs. He was breathing really hard,
I said to him that at 46 he should not be getting so out of breath. I had to do some shopping in town that day so I told him to go and see his Doctor and that I would meet him for coffee after his appointment. At 10:30 I was in Dorothey Perkins when my mobile rang and Simon said that the doctor was sending him to the hospital for an ECG of his heart. I threw my armful of sale crap (that i dont need or have room in my wardrobe for) and legged it up the high street for a taxi. When I got to the hospital to meet him they had already done the tests they needed. The found a blockage in his Pulmonary artery so they kept him in as they were worried about the risk of him having a heart attack….well i was a wreck and in danger of having one myself! Luckily simon has a great Dad, Brother and Sister-in-law who made sure my caffine levels were unaturally high! I must admit, I smoked Fags like the Goverment were giving them away! They kept Simon in the hospital for about a week without really knowing what was going to happen or what had caused the blockage. One evening i visited simonwhen he started vomitting this awful green stuff, talking to his Mum (who passed away a few years ago) he had trouble breathing and I remember at one point I practicaly pinned hi Sister-in-Law up against a wall begging her to promise me that he would be o.k (Dawn, if your’e reading this then Im ever so sorry!)
He was placed in the High dependancy unit to be on the safe side. the next day i realised that their really was a risk of losing him wahen his solicitor arrived to amend his will!
simon was trasferred to The Bristol Royal Infirmary as they have all the scanning equipment they needed to find out what was really behiend all this. After another week I went fo my ususl daily visit when Simons doctor (who we now call georgeous Brian) turned up. I was sat on Simons bed stealing his biscuits when gorgeous Brian told us that Simon had renal Cell cancer and it was very advanced. the Doctors had never seen this kind of cancer develop this was or so quickly and that they had no idea how Simon was still alive!
The cancer had started in his left Kidney and travelled up his aorta and into the left hand side of his heart.
Simon took the news so well, he didn’t cry or get angry like you would expect however, I cryed, screamed swore! Gorgeous Brian then explained that they would have to operater to get this tumor out or simon would only have a few more days to live ! (what if he had not have gone to his G.P!)
Two days later Simon was Prepped for theatre, Simon’s dad picked me up at 6am and we made the trip Bristol so I could be with Simon before the operation. When we got there Simon had been given a pre-med so he was pretty out of it, he pulled his gown over his head and told me very loudly that the nurses had stolen his underwear!
The last thing Simon said as he was wheeled into theatre was that this was the biggest day of his life!
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Thanks for your support -
So I am to assume that sleeping with your brother’s goat causes cancer?
That was too funny, and calling surgery a theater, how cool is that.
Seriously….Welcome too you and to Simon, may your journey through this be peaceful and may you be loved.
Mac
How did Simon’s surgery turn out? it was so lovely reading your U.K. English. I am in California and your terminology is a delight. I am praying for you both. I believe most of us agree that the shock and the sudden upheaval of your life is so difficult. You never expect it to happen to you. Please keep us all informed. We care, and we have been, or are, experiencing the same things.